How to Listen

Yes, most of us, including me, need to practice our listening skills! After the introductions, ask a question not quickly answered with a yes, no, or maybe. Repeat the person's name in your mind. When the person starts to talk, hold a steady, soft, or even friendly gaze directed to their left eye--if they are right-handed. To rest your eyes, consider looking slightly away every few seconds--as needed. Try to focus on every word---bypassing your thoughts. You will have to quiet your mind and hold your opinions. That is, try not to react or interrupt the speaker immediately. Instead of analyzing what you hear, try to feel and project empathy for the person. Then, when the person has completed their answer, paraphrase what they said to ensure that you understood and the person understands that you understood. Depending on their response, you might be able to start articulating your thoughts at that time. Please let me know if these listening processes worked for you and the types of challenges you experienced. #listeningskills #empathy #react #learninganddevelopment #ideas #students #studentsuccess #personalgrowthanddevelopment #retention #facultydevelopment